Question:
Interpret this sex dream please!?
dem5pinoy
2007-08-30 08:51:04 UTC
Okay so me and my ex were seriously together for over two years. When we first met everything seemed to be going okay. I gave everything I had into this relationship, and so did she. But after over a year things seemed to change for my ex-gf. She started telling me how to run things, what to do (like I was a child), pressuring me to get her a promise/committment ring. I gave everything she wanted all the love and support, but at the same time, she didn't know what she wanted in life and didnt seem to return all the feelings. During that last year she had denied me as a bf, while she was on a solo trip to Vegas, always begged for me to come over to her place when she knew I was working, tried to change who I was as a person. She is the type of person that argues a lot, and is afraid to get criticized when someone criticizes her. So I got tired one day, about 4 weeks ago, chewed her out a little bit for telling me how to run my life, left my car in tears. Before that I give her the option of breaking up w/ me. So then, two weeks later, she calls me up twice in one week, one for something different another day she needed help with something, in which I think she was setting me up for something. But I told her I couldnt help her since I was busy with a friend that day. So then a week later, my best friend tells me she has a new boyfriend, which we and our neighbors know this is a rebound bf. I have told her that I don't want any contact from her til she grows up. Sometimes, I feel this is my fault completely, and that I gave in too much throughout the last year, and for standing up to her like that on that very last day. But just last night, I had a very funny dream that we were riding in a new car of mine a 1977 Thunderbird mint condition, at the same time, my ex was crawling to straddle my lap and that we made out and had sex in my car in the daytime in my driveway. I know that this dream wont come true, but what is the significance and interpretation of that dream? Any experts, please?
Four answers:
tushanna_m
2007-08-30 10:06:28 UTC
Not too many details on the dream itself, but the 1977 mint condition Thunderbird is significant. It's an old car (old relationship) but is mint condition (you still find her attractive physically). Thunderbird is a powerful car (she still has a powerful hold on you). You in the driver's seat means you are in control of yourself emotionally. Her straddling your lap means you know that she wants to be in control and on top in the relationship with you, and those are her terms if you wish to continue with her. Daytime means you are fully aware of who/what she is and who/what you are. In your driveway indicates a public but secure place (you have no fear of public embarassment because of her or the breakup, and are willing to air your thoughts/feelings about her publicly because you are secure in yourself).
no_shoe_girl
2007-08-30 16:01:32 UTC
Your telling her what to do and taking control over her instead of being told what to do. Since you guys are apart you no longer have to do what she wants and are free to imagine and do whatever you want (even though you know she would not go along with it). I think it is your way of feeling free and taking back control of your life.
janigurl
2007-08-30 15:58:19 UTC
Take a cold shower. Then see if she wants to be friends with you again.
2007-08-30 15:57:15 UTC
You need to get laid.


This content was originally posted on Y! Answers, a Q&A website that shut down in 2021.
Loading...